| The word
“wed” is derived
from the ancient Greek word
for “pledge.”
And that’s exactly what
a wedding is, no matter what
country it takes place in,
no matter what culture it’s
part of. To wed is to pledge
yourself to another. There
are few acts we perform that
are more pure or more beautiful
than the act of marriage.
The pledge that lasts
a lifetime.
Marriage is the most solemn
pledge we make in our lifetimes.
Traditionally the wedding
pledge is made in front of
family and friends who take
special pains to stand up
and witness our pledge. The
wedding pledge is to be true
and faithful and loving to
another human being. To wed
is both the most basic of
all human pledges, and at
the same time the most sublime.
Marriage carries with it
the most solemn of promises,
but it also embodies the potential
for the greatest joy of human
existence – the pure
joy that flows from two hearts
beating as one. There are
few joys in life as deep or
as long lasting as the joy
that springs from the well
of true love and a lasting
marriage.
If we are lucky,
we find our one, true soul
mate.
We even have a term for it:
soul mates. Two people, individual
but at the same time inextricably
a part of each other, so in-tune
with the wants and the needs
and the desires of the other
that often words are not necessary.
A mere glance between two
lovers speaks volumes.
In almost all cultures the
marriage ceremony ends with
the bride and groom exchanging
a kiss. The wedding kiss transcends
cultures, it bridges tribes,
it is one of the very few
things that bind all of us
together as human beings.
From ancient times to the
modern day, from the deepest
jungles to the tallest skyscrapers,
the wedding kiss symbolizes
for all people everywhere
the physical uniting of two
souls.
Marriage is the strongest
bond the world has ever known.
Marriage is a bringing together.
It is a bringing together
of two people, of two families,
or two tribes, or two villages,
or even two countries. Marriage
is that powerful. Marriage
is not something to be entered
into lightly. Marriage is
a pledge meant to last a lifetime.
Yet it is one of the unceasing
marvels that we are able to
express something as basic
as love and marriage in so
many wonderful and touching
ways. Such is the wonder of
human existence. The ceremonies
and the traditions may be
different, they may seem strange
or outlandish or they may
touch feelings in us that
we never knew we had, but
there is something about marriage
that is instantly recognizable
no matter what the language.
Love truly does make
the world go around.
It has often been said that
love transcends everything,
that it knows no barriers.
If you are looking for a unique
or thoughtful way of showing
your love, then perhaps you
have come to the right place.
Here you will find many ways
to “tie the knot.”
Perhaps you will discover
a charming wedding tradition
that you can make all your
own. If you have decided to
make the pledge, then be prepared
to embrace love and marriage
in all its splendors, and
the world will be yours. |